date: Mar 13, 2008
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turn offs. especially in boy-girl relationships. come on.
nowadays i keep hearing "i am turn off by this, i am turn off by that". i do not want to pinpoint anybody. it is just that the "turned off clan" might feel affected and hurt.
current situation. turned off when girls smoke. oh a big come on. it is the 21st century. i know it may not be feminine for them. but i speak for them when i say it is their choice to pop that cigarette in their mouth. their life, their choice right. and we are basic human beings. we have basic manners. if someone does not like someone else smoking near them, especially if they know that person. they could just tell them they do not like it. or if you have a girlfriend or a boyfriend who smokes and you are not liking it. smokers have the basic courtesy to not smoke in front of them. unless you do not mind. then to hell with the turn offs.
guys especially. picture this. you are sitting at mcCafe lido. and you saw this chick. you feel interested and all. but suddenly she pops a cigarette into her mouth. and you go DAMN! sounds familiar to any of you guys. smoking is a habit. not a disease nor a for-life thing. unless that person chose to be that way.
so please do not say you are turn off. if you really want to say it, say something nicer. like "she is not my type". though that may not sound so polite. it is better than saying turn off.
let us accept each other through our hearts. and not by what we see or hear.
i smoke for passion. and i aint planning to quit soon. now that is my choice.
have you made yours.
cheers.
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